Dating is expensive

According to a match.com study of singles in America, dating is 40% more expensive than in was ten years ago. That alone is a good reason to try to find less expensive options, but 84% also were found to prefer simpler, more thoughtful dates.

When dating while non-monogamous, there are additional things to consider as well, such as:

• One partner having more access to money than the other (for dates, travel, etc.).

• Different spending abilities/limitations.

• Two partners having entangled finances and no independent budget for dating.

To combat inflation and still have a good time, we came up with some ways to go out without breaking the bank! Consider:

• Outdoor adventures (bonus points for getting your heart rate up!).

• Movie night/film festival. Pick a theme or category and each pick a movie.

• Learn something new, whether academic or a physical skill.

• Look for free events at the library or local bookstores.

• Watch a local sports event.

• Karaoke/Arcades.

• Volunteer together.

• Look for local events like art walks, theater in the park, local art exhibitions, markets, etc.

• Even ones that aren’t well organized can be a fun date and give you memes!

• Roller skating (or ice skating?!). Makes a great opportunity for facing a little discomfort also also holding hands!

• Go thrifting and pick out outfits for each other, which you then wear on a date!

• Go to a fancy place but only order a single drink, or go to happy hour.

• Look for cultural institutions like zoos, museums, and botanical gardens that have free days.

• Music or theater concerts at local colleges/universities.

• Treat yourself to an expensive, fancy thing from the grocery store. It’s still cheaper than having a mediocre meal at a restaurant or bar.

What’s your favorite fun, cheap date to do?